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Hints and Tips
Browse through several agencies until
you find one that you feel comfortable with, and that you could contact
easily if you become uneasy about anything.
Gifts and money
• Never send money to someone you haven’t met in person –if you do want to
pay for her to travel to meet you, send tickets (that will give you a refund
if they are not used).
• Never send gifts through the mail. They often arrive with different
packing, with items that have gone missing. It takes up to 10 days even for
a local delivery. Even if parcels do reach their destination, the recipient
will have to pay duty at about 50% of the declared value.
• Use a local delivery agent, ensuring that they accept credit cards as the
credit card company will give support in case of a dispute. (Western Union
is not to be recommended, as there is no recourse)
• Always use a US or European-based company that keeps all credit data in
the West. It is not safe to allow your credit data to go through a credit
clearing house in Russia.
• Credit cards are not generally used. 99.9% of Russians use cash only after
having had the experiences of seeing their bank accounts decrease
dramatically in a few days on several occasions.
Letter writing tips
• Don’t use slang which could easily be misconstrued in translation.
• Be positive and enthusiastic about yourself, and your interest in her.
• Don’t talk about Russian problems
A reply will take time
It could take up to 4 months for you to receive a letter A letter by regular
mail will take between 4 to 8 weeks to be delivered.
E-mail seems the obvious answer, but few Russians own a computer, and access
to the internet is an expensive luxury. Covering the cost of the reply is a
great help.
The scenario is often as follows:
• An e-mail is written to the woman via the agency.
• The agency checks your account
• The e-mail is forwarded to the local agency in Russia.
• It is translated
• The woman is notified by phone or mail and the e-mail is either sent by
mail or personally collected.
• Then the whole process is reversed.
It could take some time, between 3 to 7 days if everything is working
efficiently.
If you live in USA, Canada, Australia :-
To marry a Russian woman you will have to have a deal with the immigration
service in your country. The necessary requirement is that you have met each
other in person before you apply for a visa for your fiancee. To obtain
another type of visa for a single woman is virtually impossible. (Europe and
other countries do grant visitor's visas to single Russian girls).
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